Run CommonJS resolver only if `error.code` is ERR_MODULE_NOT_FOUND.
Avoid using absolute paths in hint by:
* using a parent-relative path if the specifier is a relative path
* using a `pkg/x.js` format if the specifier is bare (e.g. `pkg/x`)
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/31906
Reviewed-By: Guy Bedford <guybedford@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Myles Borins <myles.borins@gmail.com>