http: server check Host header, to meet RFC 7230 5.4 requirement

PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/45597
Fixes: https://github.com/nodejs/node/issues/39033
Co-authored-by: Luigi Pinca <luigipinca@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: mscdex <mscdex@users.noreply.github.com>
Reviewed-By: Robert Nagy <ronagy@icloud.com>
Reviewed-By: Paolo Insogna <paolo@cowtech.it>
Reviewed-By: Yagiz Nizipli <yagiz@nizipli.com>
Reviewed-By: Matteo Collina <matteo.collina@gmail.com>

lib/http.js

@@ -52,6 +52,7 @@ let maxHeaderSize;
  *   ServerResponse?: ServerResponse;
  *   insecureHTTPParser?: boolean;
  *   maxHeaderSize?: number;
+ *   requireHostHeader?: boolean
  *   }} [opts]
  * @param {Function} [requestListener]
  * @returns {Server}